Women and men relate to problems in entirely different ways. Men seem to relate in one of two ways. They can either talk (or yell) it out with their mate, or they completely shut down making their mate feel about an inch tall. But if their women did those same things then they'd be P.M.S.'ng, or being bitches. Women deal with things (generally) by wanting to talk (or yell) things out. They want to get to the root of the problem so the two parties can work things out. Because in the end, people work things out, or they end things. Men think that they can deal with it and its over. But its not over for us. Trust me, if we haven't dealt with it calmly and maturely together, then we can't just get over it. And fellas, if we're trying to work things out, then obviously we don't want to end things. And the next time you want to shut us out, remember that two can play at that game, and you wouldn't like it if we just acted like you didn't exist because we were upset with you. That would be about the time that you grabbed your coat, car keys, and went to grab a beer with the boys, or if you don't drink that'd be about the time you would shut yourself in the room with the tv or video game system. Either way, you wouldn't like it.